Should you date a mathematician? This is the question Tanya Khovanova asked herself on her blog. If you don’t know the answer from experience, you should look into what she has to say.
The book How to Drive Your Man Wild in Bed by Graham Masterton has a chapter on how to choose a lover. The list of bad features also includes professions to avoid. Can you guess the first profession on the list? OK, I think you should be able to meta-guess given the fact that I am writing about it. Indeed, the list on page 64 starts:
Avoid, on the whole, mathematiciansâ€¦
I am an expert on NOT avoiding mathematicians: in fact, Iâ€™ve married three of them and dated x number of them. That isnâ€™t necessarily because I like mathematicians so much; I just do not meet anyone else.
First, there are many mathematicians who, like my first husband, are very devoted to mathematics. I admire that devotion, but it means that they plan to do mathematics on Saturday nights and prefer to spend vacation at their desks. If they can only fit in one music concert per year, it is not enough for me. Of course, this applies to anyone who is obsessed by his work.
Second, there are mathematicians who believe that they are very smart. Smarter than many other people. They expand their credibility in math to other fields. They start going into biology, politics and relationships with the charisma of an expert, when in fact they do not have a clue what they are talking about.
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1 thought on “The problem with dating a mathematician”
This is nothing more than stereotyping and it’s wrong to assume. Some of the best people I’ve ever met in life are Mathematicians and Physicists.
*probably because they’re intelligent enough to understand what respect and friendships are about*
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